The universe doesn’t fit you with a straitjacket and send you out the door. There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to living. This should be obvious to you as you travel the world. Political culture aside, as a member of a developed economy you have been granted a boon by random fate to have a choice in how you live out your days. Keep in mind that you have saddled yourself with all your current issues, whatever they may be, and you can just as easily get off that horse and ride, walk, run, fly or swim in another direction. Life is short, you can’t buy more time at the end of your genetic lottery. Ask Steve Jobs how much extra time his Apple billions bought him…..sadly, not a minute. In the end he ‘wanted to get to know his children’, his deathbed summation was that he’d wasted his life chasing shadows , regretting what he didn’t do, as opposed to what he did…..choices…..and consequences.